Premanand Maharaj Ji
How do I become more patient?
When someone wrongs or provokes you
Forgive even a very big offence as best you can, pray that Bhagwan purify the other person's buddhi (understanding), and when anger rises, keep silent and step away. The lesson is to forgive, pray for them and not get angry.
If someone commits the greatest offence against us, we should try to forgive them and pray to Bhagwan, "Purify this person's buddhi."