Bageshwar Dham Sarkar
How can I stop hating someone and feel peace again?
See your own flaws, their virtues
Look for flaws in yourself and for virtues in others. If you do not see flaws in others, hatred does not arise; without hatred there is love for everyone, and the trouble ends.
If you do not look at flaws, there will be no hatred. If there is no hatred, you will love everyone. If you love everyone, the trouble is over.