Premanand Maharaj Ji
How do I become more patient?
What patience really is
Patience is not panicking when trouble comes, and not giving in to the senses even when the chance to indulge is there. The lesson is that patience becomes strong only when you control these senses and do bhajan.
If someone brings hardship, insult, contempt or criticism and we are not shaken, that will happen when the rasendriya and janendriya are brought under control and Bhagwan's bhajan is done. Patience will be strengthened only then.