Bageshwar Dham Sarkar
What is the first step of surrender to God?
First sutra: be favourable to God
Surrender has six sutras (principles), and the first is anukul sankalp, the resolve to always live in harmony with Bhagwan and never act against Him.
O Lord, we will always remain in harmony with You and never act against You. To win anyone's heart, first learn to be in harmony with them.