Bageshwar Dham Sarkar
What is the real cause of my sadness, and why do my feelings hurt me?
Sorrow comes from expectations
Sorrow comes from keeping a feeling toward someone and then expecting things from them. When the expectation fails, you become sad.
The cause of sorrow is holding a feeling for someone and then expecting things from them. If you imagine that someone you trust will lend you money, and he does not, you become sad.