Premanand Maharaj Ji
Can I build self-discipline on my own strength, or do I need God's help?
Discipline rests on Bhagwan's strength
Maya (the deluding power of the world) can bewilder even great souls, so chant Naam and stay dependent on Bhagwan. Whatever restraint you have comes by Bhagwan's strength.
Whatever restraint you are able to keep comes from Bhagwan's strength. Feel it so. Do not live under the misunderstanding that you are self-controlled and have conquered your senses.