Om Swami
How do I save my relationship when my partner and I keep clashing over how we want to live?
Find common ground; don't force your way
Why not treat an adult like an adult? Forcing somebody to live according to you brings no joy, and you probably cannot be happy if the other person is not happy. Two people have to find common ground by asking what each needs from life.
Do you really think you can be happy if the other person is not happy? I doubt it. So the point becomes that two people have to find common ground.