Om Swami
How can I tell whether a hard decision I am about to make is the right one?
Test a decision by asking who it harms
Before acting, ask whether it will hurt, harm or injure anyone, and whether it benefits the world at large or is a purely selfish pursuit. The more you can believe it helps others, or at least does not hurt, harm or injure them, it is a decision worth considering.
Ask yourself: what I am about to do, is it going to hurt anyone, harm anyone, or injure anyone?