Sadhguru
How can I stop blaming my ego and take responsibility for how I behave?
Stop using ego as a fall guy
People say "I did it" when they do something wonderful, but "it was my ego" when they do something nasty. What happens in me is me and nobody else. If you see that, you would want to change it.
So Mr. Ego is a fall guy. Whenever you turn nasty he is there, but when you do good things, of course it is you.