Om Swami
What should I do when my marriage is struggling and I keep complaining but nothing changes?
Say your minimum needs, and build a choice
Sit the other person down and tell them what you need at the minimum for anything to work between you. Ask whether you have a choice, because without one you can only keep complaining.
Tell them, this is the minimum I need for anything to work between us. And remember, I first asked whether you have a choice in this matter.