Sadhguru
Why does divorce hurt so much even when I know it is the right decision?
Why divorce hurts the body too
When you are taken away from your spouse, through divorce or death, the system goes through a certain level of suffering, even if you are emotionally and psychologically balanced. If you have lived together long enough, the memory of your spouse works in every cell of your body, so it is not just an emotional process but a very physical one.
Divorce is a voluntary death: you have decided to kill something that is, in some way, a part of you.