Om Swami
Should I blame my stars or other people when things don't work out?
Look within, not at stars or others
When something doesn't happen, you can look for answers in things you don't control and end up blaming the stars, society or people around you. Or you can look within for your answers. If you are unsuccessful, chances are you are responsible for it somewhere.
If you're lonely, if you're sad, if you're unsuccessful, chances are you are somewhere responsible for it. At least that's the view I take.