Swami Mukundananda
Why do I cry so much after someone dies, and is it okay to cry?
Why we cry in grief
No rule says you must cry when a parent dies. A person cries because the misery burns inside and crying brings relief.
All the misery I got from my father and mother passing away was burning me, and by crying I take it out. This gives me relief. If I don't cry, I'll go crazy.