Swami Mukundananda
How do I stop feeling that my unhappiness depends on another person changing?
Take back the key to your happiness
Pain is inevitable, but misery is an option. When you blame someone, you place the key of your happiness in their hands. When you decide you are in charge of your own emotions, you take responsibility for your moods.
When we decide that I am in charge of my own emotions, when we decide to stop playing the blame game, it is then that we take responsibility for our moods.