Sadhguru
Should I guide my children even if they say I have no business telling them what to do?
Guide without owning
Children are not an extension of your ambitions, and they are not your property. Still, it is your business to guide them, because if you don't, somebody else will.
It is your business to see to it, because if you don't guide them, somebody else will, on the street, or long distance on the Internet.