Om Swami
Why do husbands and wives clash, and what do wives usually want in marriage?
Don't treat your wife as someone who reports to you
A woman's psyche usually holds the thought, "I will love him so much and he will love me back much more." What happens is that people end up marrying their parents, and a patronizing voice stays in a man who treats his wife as if she reports to him.
People end up marrying their parents; a patronizing voice doesn't leave a man, and he treats his wife as if she reports to him and he is the boss.