Swami Mukundananda
Why does worldly love disappear when the other person lets us down?
Selfish love vanishes; the devotee loves for God's sake
In this world, love disappears when the other person behaves badly. Swamiji calls this selfish love. The devotee instead tells God, I am loving you for your sake, whatever you do.
The devotee says: I am loving you for your sake; whatever you do, my love will never be (diminished).