Sadhguru
How much attention should I give my marriage so it doesn't swallow my whole life?
Handle marriage gracefully, without excess
Marriage is a formal arrangement for biological, psychological and social needs. Conduct these arrangements gracefully so there is time and space to turn around; if you pay excess attention to them, turning around will not be possible.
Conduct the arrangements you have made gracefully, so there is time and space for you to turn around. If you pay excess attention to these arrangements, turning around will not be possible.