Bageshwar Dham Sarkar
Should I go to a gathering where I know I will be insulted or humiliated?
Do not walk into a place meant to insult you
A yagya meant for the good of the world can be attended without an invitation. But a yagya meant to insult you is not to be attended uninvited.
A yagya meant for the welfare of the world, you should attend even uninvited; but one meant to insult you, you should not attend uninvited.