Bageshwar Dham Sarkar
I have a job and family. Do I have to become a renunciate to get God's grace?
Work is service to Bhagwan
You do not need to become a renunciate or sadhu to receive grace; many great souls lived as householders. Do your work wholeheartedly as God's work, and it becomes seva (selfless service).
Whatever work you are doing, do it, do plenty, do it wholeheartedly. Just remember one thing: do not drown in the work. Take it as God's work and drown in God.