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Swami Mukundananda

Why does my child choose video games over studies even when I explain?

Child chooses pleasure, parent wants benefit

Parents, with their wisdom, want the child's best benefit (shreya). The child's self-control and wisdom have not stabilized, so the child wants present pleasure (preya), such as video games.

The parent says you should study and get into a good college so you have a wonderful life. The child says, who wants all that? Video games are giving me pleasure.

Watch this moment on YouTube at 4:39

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