Sadhguru
My partner did what they wanted and I feel betrayed. How should I look at it?
Love means they are free to do as they wish
If they do what they want to do, why do you think they have betrayed you? They are doing what they want to do, and you must respect it. Love means they can do what they want and you will love them.
If you love a person, should you let them do what they want, or should they do what you want? For most people, love means 'you must do what I want.'