Swami Mukundananda
How can a couple keep peace when relatives behave badly?
Peace despite relatives' behavior
Another person's behavior is not in your hands, and if you want peace of mind, you will have to learn to tolerate that behavior. The externals are not in our hands.
My dear wife, I agree she is not behaving well, you are very right, she should behave better; however, her behavior is not in my hands and there is nothing I can do about it.