Bageshwar Dham Sarkar
What should I do when someone abuses me or hurls insults at me?
Do not answer abuse with abuse
When someone abuses you, do not return the abuse. Say gently, "same to you," and the quarrel ends. If you abuse back, there is no difference between you and the one who abused you.
Maharaj, if someone abuses us, what should we do? Nothing. A small remedy: if someone abuses you, gently say 'same to you', and the quarrel is over.