Sadhguru
Why do pretty words not heal grief, and what does?
Seek a solution, not only solace
In grief people become like children, and we treat them like children with pretty words. But you must decide whether you want solace or a solution, and the solution is to come to terms with the fact that we will all die.
You must decide in your life whether you want solace or a solution. If you want a solution there is one way to approach it; if you just want solace, we can give pretty words.