Premanand Maharaj Ji
How do I live through grief after a death?
Chant the name and offer it to them
Stop crying, chant Bhagwan's name, and give that naam to the departed soul for its good. Reading a chapter of the Gita each day in order and giving it to the departed is also a very good thing.
Now turn away from crying and remember Bhagwan's name, and give that naam to that soul, so that it is blessed. Then it will be blessed, and so will you.