Bageshwar Dham Sarkar
How do I live through grief after a death?
Attachment is what makes grief
Sorrow and joy are only a matter of moh (attachment): whatever we make our own brings sorrow. Practise seeing no one as mine and no one as a stranger.
Sorrow and joy are nothing but the cycle of attachment. What you have made your own is sorrow; what is not your own is nothing to you.