Swami Mukundananda
How do I stay at peace when my children don't turn out as I hoped?
Children are God's; you are the caretaker
Children are not yours but God's, and you are the caretaker, so your duty to God is to give them the opportunity to perfect their lives. If you are not disturbed when the result differs, you are doing it for God.
The test is whether you stay undisturbed if the result is not what you wanted. If you feel disturbed, you are doing it for yourself.