Sadhguru
Is a relationship only about sweet feelings, or do practical things matter too?
Relationship is built, not just felt
The sweetness of emotion happens within you, but a relationship is hard work you have to build and manage. The other person also looks at what you wear, what you drive and who you are.
A relationship is hard work, that is external success; you have to build it and manage it. There are many aspects to it, and the other person may be looking at your external situations.