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Swami Mukundananda

How can I reduce the constant fighting with my spouse when our marriage is under strain?

Change your expectations of your spouse

Everybody is always changing, so expecting others to always think in line with your thoughts is unrealistic. If you understand that others are as they are and change your own expectations, the tension goes away.

To expect that others will always think in line with my thoughts is unrealistic. If we can understand that others are as they are, and change our own expectations, the tension goes away.

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