Om Swami
How do I know what is really good for my loved one?
Your opinion is not their good
What you think is good for another person is your opinion against theirs, and it is not necessarily good for them. We want conformity, yet inventions and fresh thinking usually come from people who go against the current.
How can you be so sure that what you think is good for the other person is actually good for them? The problem is we want conformity, we want standardization.