Om Swami
Why does shouting in anger never solve a problem with my spouse?
Anger loses the battle before it begins
When we get angry we have already lost the battle without fighting it. If we do not get angry, we win it without fighting. Shouting a hundred times will not make someone understand what they did not grasp in the first or second telling.
At that very moment we lose, we lose the battle without fighting it. If we do not get angry, we win the battle without fighting it.