Swami Mukundananda
What if my spouse is not my perfect soulmate? How can I still make my marriage work?
Don't expect a soulmate; make it work
Don't have too high expectations. If you expect to find a soulmate and live happily ever after, there is no doubt you will feel disappointed. Instead, make the bad bargain work to the best extent possible and use the situation to go towards God.
Just make the imperfect bargain work to the best extent possible, and use the situation and position to move towards God.