Sadhguru
Why do I feel I am doing too much when I help someone, and how can I serve without that feeling?
Service flows from a loving heart
We feel we are doing too much for someone when our heart is barren and we have no love for them. If you hold yourself in a pleasantness of emotion and are simply loving, not just toward this or that person, you will be willing to do as much as you can.
When do we feel we are doing too much for somebody? When we have no love for them of any kind and our heart is barren.