Sadhguru
Why do I get stressed and strained in my marriage?
Stress comes when needs go unmet
You were not born with your spouse. You were born a complete human being, and you married because of certain needs. Marriage is meant to be a package that solves them, but sometimes the partner refuses to fulfill some of your needs, and then you get stressed and strained.
It is a comprehensive package: if you get married, all these problems are supposed to be solved in one shot. Sometimes they may refuse to fulfill some of your needs.