Sadhguru
Why do I feel weighed down by my marriage, and how should I look at it?
Marriage is an arrangement, not a burden or a heaven
Marriage is just an arrangement so that a human being's needs are fulfilled in a dignified way. It is not a commodity to carry on your head, though many people do.
Marriage is not a commodity to carry on your head, yet many people carry it that way. It is just an arrangement.