Dr Kumar Vishwas
How do I know which things to change in my partner and which to accept?
Separate what can change from what cannot
Some habits and thought patterns belong to the person, and some were made by the world. The ones the world made can be changed by debating and explaining. Ask what in the other person can be changed a little, and what you simply could not live with.
Some habits and thought processes are within a person, and some are made by the world; those you can change by discussing them, those you can explain.