Om Swami
How can I stop constant fights over small habits with my spouse?
Stop imposing rules on your spouse
Couples keep battling over how the other must live, eat and behave. Your spouse never promised not to do these things when marrying you, and demanding they stop just because they are married to you is a kind of punishment.
He never promised that he would not do these things if he married you. Now you are saying do not do these things just because he is married to you. Is that a punishment?