Sadhguru
Why is divorce so painful even when I want to end the marriage?
Why letting go of a spouse is not easy
What you see and touch leaves the deepest memory in the system, so a spouse you have touched is held in deep memory. Trying to rip that memory off is not going to be easy.
When you see a spouse you have touched, there is a deep memory. In a divorce you are trying to rip that memory off, and that will not be easy.