Sadhguru
How can I feel real love when the love around me seems superficial?
Become love, don't just love someone
Learn to be loving by your own nature, not because of somebody or something else. Loving somebody is a fickle happening, because nobody can fulfil the unrealistic expectations you have of them.
If you just become love, rather than love somebody, then you will know the nature of love. If you love somebody, it is a fickle happening.