Dr Kumar Vishwas
How do I find courage when the people around me keep saying I can't do it?
Seat Krishna, not Shalya, on your chariot
Watch who sits on the chariot of your life. A person like Shalya, who keeps discouraging you with 'how will you do it?', should be taken down from the chariot, however big a king he is. Seat as Krishna the friend who says 'it is fine, child, you can do it.'
Very often we seat Shalyas on our life's chariot, people who tell you all day, 'How will you ever manage this? How will you do it?'