Premanand Maharaj Ji
What should I do when my marriage is breaking down or ending in divorce?
Quarrels come from wanting your own comfort
The cause of quarrels is the craving for one's own happiness. If this craving is changed, peace and joy spread.
The cause of all sorrow, of anger, of quarrels is svasukh vaanchha, the wish for our own happiness. If we change this wish, peace and joy will spread.