Sadhguru
Should I forget what someone did to me when I forgive them?
Remember everything, but don't label people
There is no need to forget; you must remember everything. If you first think the person has done something horrible, then you try to forgive. If you don't label them like that, where is the need to forgive?
There is no need to forget; you must remember everything. As for forgiving, you first think this person has done something horrible, and then you try to forgive.