Premanand Maharaj Ji
How do I have a happy marriage?
Desire leads to anger
Anger does not arise without desire. If we offer our wishes to our husband, there is no question of a quarrel.
Without desire, anger does not arise. Desire gives rise to anger, anger to confusion, confusion to loss of memory, then loss of discernment, and then ruin. If we have a desire, we lay that desire at our husband's feet.