Sadhguru
Why does it feel like karma is hitting me from outside?
Unconscious action looks like fate
Most human beings are well over 99% unconscious in their karma, so they feel it is hitting them from somewhere else. The problem is unawareness, not karma.
No, it is your own unconscious action. Because you are unconscious, you think it is coming from somewhere else. You are mistaking your own hand for the hand of fate.