Premanand Maharaj Ji
How do I have a happy marriage?
Stay silent in a quarrel, chant, and offer your love to Bhagwan
In a quarrel, fall silent, do not answer back, and chant Bhagwan's name. Love your spouse freely and offer that love to Bhagwan.
If the husband is angry, stay silent for a while. Do not answer back, because that will increase his anger. Chant Bhagwan's name, and your heart will cool and his heart will cool too.