Bageshwar Dham Sarkar
How do I have a happy marriage?
Give love and raise each other's honour
Your spouse wants your love, not a ritual show of worship, and each should raise the other's honour. Respect for the wife is respect for the husband, and insult to her is insult to him.
Your wife wants love from you. Your husband wants love from you. Your son wants love from you. He does not want worship from you.