Premanand Maharaj Ji
How do I keep my relationships strong?
See Bhagwan in your relatives and think of their good
See Bhagwan in your relatives and in every guest or member of the household, and treat them with that feeling. Respect given this way becomes bhagwat seva (service to Bhagwan), not just a good deed.
Of all the ways we can respect our relatives, what greater respect is there than seeing you as Bhagwan himself?