Sadhguru
How do I stop my job and the people around me from disturbing my peace?
Don't let work or people make or break your life
Activity, people, challenges and impediments are things that only make your work better or worse. None of them is looked at as something that can make or break your life, because that is kept in your own hands.
I never look at any activity or any person as someone who can make or break my life, because I have kept that in my own hands.