Premanand Maharaj Ji
Householder life urges me to gather more, while bhakti asks for giving up. How do I balance ambition and surrender?
Gather for the service of the Lord within family
Make Shri Ji the purpose behind your effort. Bhagwan is present in your husband, son and in-laws, so you can gather wealth to serve them.
Let me gather wealth and things for the service of these Lords, and win them over. It is the same thing.